What really stresses us most is not able to hit on a solution to our problems... and we so much love them that's why I call them "our" problems. The affinity is so high that we revel in the problem, looking for a solution and not finding any....
An increasing resistance to whats happening to us and the constant question: "why would things go another way and not my way", hence we are not able to comprehend the problem but yet seek a way out.
As I always say: the key is awareness. Understand the problem and there is a magical sequence of events leading to the solution. The solution is not a big deal, an awareness to the issue, gives an opening.
Our non-acceptance of the problem followed by fearing to understand it is the main obstacle to the solution.
An increasing resistance to whats happening to us and the constant question: "why would things go another way and not my way", hence we are not able to comprehend the problem but yet seek a way out.
As I always say: the key is awareness. Understand the problem and there is a magical sequence of events leading to the solution. The solution is not a big deal, an awareness to the issue, gives an opening.
Our non-acceptance of the problem followed by fearing to understand it is the main obstacle to the solution.
