Take Action, Be responsible!

Most of the pain I have is when I wait for someone else to take action and base my emotions in life on that person's action. He didnt call me, "I am upset". She doesn't mail, "She is rude". Why do I let others take charge of my life. What a 'lazy way' to live :)

I take Action and then I am totally responsible for my actions. Then do I feel hurt, do I feel bad...no, not at all. It may be difficult but awareness really helps. As one gets aware of whats going on, it helps :)