Falling out of love...

A friend got married very recently, I was glad that it happened eventually after a long wait. Lately though he has been seeking advice from me about a marital issue, I told him to meet a counselor. Learnt from experiences to keep away from trouble though I so want to help, I resist the temptation :)

He checked with me another day and well I gave in. He is sad that he has fallen out of love with his spouse and is confused how it could happen

Didn't answer it for a while and then gave some of my thoughts over it, the chat script as is:

love is not just about the initial attraction as most of us think it is..bcos the high levels of energy confuses us..the dizziness of falling in love makes us feel and want only that

but love is about the different phases...just sitting around doing nothing..

and u know

also falling out of love

is part of being in love

just a phase

bcos in marriage its abt falling in love with the same person again and again

its fun actually :)

so just accept it that its fine

how u feel now

just normal hai

:)